The Singles Scene Column©

Tradition Takes The Crown (Again)

“keep your way of being love, keep this glow,

others will come to you just to feel this”~~butterflies rising

Welcome to the Matchmaking Era. The recent exodus away from digital dating and AI algorithms has driven upscale singles back to traditional dating methods. Fear of over sharing information online leaves only one option for quality singles: In-Person Matchmaking. Read on to learn more about this powerful movement away from internet dating, and do share this article with your single family and friends. People need more hope and inspiration in an age of cold technology. Thank us later!

Fun Fact: We have had an astronomical number of phone calls from parents of adult children, as well as adult children calling for their divorced or widowed parents. In the past, we had issues with this type of phone call, and we requested that the actual (potential) client call us directly. However, there have been so many in the last few years that we have adapted to the needs of our society. Many adults are concerned about their single parents dating online, and parents worry about their single adult children. They don’t want them online dating as the horrors have reached new heights. In a world where dating values are collapsing, quality singles are shutting down, and we are happy to be part of the solution.

Signs You Have Been Online Dating For Too Long And Need To Stop:

1. Your possible dates are coming on too strong, quickly. Mystery is still a part of dating, but society has become wary of it. Everyone wants to know it all up front. This takes the fun out of traditional courtship at the very best and could be a complete nightmare at the very least.

2. Your list of must-haves has morphed into a list of what you don’t want. When did this happen? It likely comes from a long line of disappointing dates, catfish, ghosts, and wasted years.

3. You find yourself doing a deep dive into your date’s social media. Are you a P.I.? Most of what you see on social media is not accurate. What exactly are you looking for and why can’t you find out on your dates? This is the way it was done before social media became an (unreliable) tool.

4. You are tired of mind games and wasting your time. You are ready to throw in the towel on love altogether. Dating (online) is worse than waking up at 4:00 am to go to the gym. Most would agree they would rather go to the gym that early than go on an online date.

5. You keep thinking the next one will be the big win, just like in Las Vegas. Everyone is feeling down about the dating process in 2025, and this has given rise to our favorite topic: MATCHMAKING. Tradition has gone sideways, and technology is no longer helping people find love. Marriage is on the decline, and divorce is on the rise.

Dating apps were intended to make love easier to find. On the contrary, love is not valued the way it used to be, nor is commitment. Temptation abounds. Being lured into the next best thing by artificial intelligence has given us a sense of false reality. Apps promised convenience, access, and a range of options. Yet, all you see is burnout, disconnection, and a whole lot of wasted energy and emotion…oh, don’t forget the significant mental health effects.

The truth is, dating apps have ultimately gamified love. The sacredness of love has been misunderstood and exploited. Sincere and successful human beings are becoming shallow behind a screen. Technology has trained our brains to chase the next swipe or the next dopamine hit. Worst of all, they have led many to believe it is normal. It is not normal, hence the massive return to tradition.

Studies show digital dependence is designed to keep you single (and hooked).

• App users reported experiencing dating-app fatigue at a rate of 78% (80% of women, 74% of men), with young adults being the most affected.

• Prolonged app use leads to emotional exhaustion, validation addiction, and mental strain, amplifying anxiety, depression, and sometimes eating disorders.

• Clinicians note users can become hooked on the dopamine rush of matches, with continuous swiping leading to feelings of objectification, low self-esteem, and psychological fatigue.

These statistics above are why matchmaking is more important than ever. This is the reason family and friends are worried about their single friends. Due to high demand, new clients are encouraged to reserve their spot immediately. Lucky for you, our headquarters is close to you. As soon as you reserve your first appointment, a sense of enthusiasm, inspiration, and relief will take over. Cuffing Season is in full swing, and your timing is exquisite. These are the days (and nights) to remember. Make them revolutionary.

We are looking forward to seeing you this August before the Fall Season 2025 hits! It is going to be a very busy season ahead and having a Plus One makes it all more fun. LIVE Matchmakers are standing by to guide you to the next step in our fun and easy process. Do call or register for more information today. You got this!

Xoxo – Kelly & Miranda

Kelly Leary, M.S.^© is CEO and Founder of Revolution Dating which she launched in 2014. Kelly has 34 years in the dating industry and a master’s degree in clinical psychology. She has been written about in Modern Luxury Magazine Palm Beach and Modern Luxury Manhattan, The Palm Beach Post, The Shiny Sheet, Stuart News, Jupiter Magazine, and many more. Revolution Dating clients are pre-screened in person, including background checks and ID verification. Professional photos are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is NOT online dating or blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive club memberships, Kelly and Miranda also provide feedback from dates when appropriate. Mock Dates are available by request. Single Coaching Sessions and Evaluations are also available by request for non-members or as an add-on to some memberships. *All inquiries are confidential. *Specializing in representing jet-setting clients with a second home in the Northeast Area. Do call the central hotline at 561-630-9696 (XOXO) or scan the QR code below to hold your place in the club. Why wait? Just Date!

Let Cuffing Season Commence!

Enjoy these Behind The Scenes photographs from the Corporate Headquarters of Revolution Dating on PGA Boulevard where this landmark business has been for eleven successful years. Upscale single, divorced, and widowed clientele are attracted to the “love offline” approach to dating and the demand for quality matchmakers is soaring. Romance and opportunities are heating up at this wildly successful Matchmaking Firm. Revolution Dating specializes in screening and representing clients from the Northeast to Palm Beach for decades. Lucky for you, their main office is in our local area. Isn’t it time you did something for you? If so, secure your First Interview today. Summer is flying by and we are officially entering Cuffing Season so don’t miss out on finding your match before the holidays. Every day, clients are pairing off two at a time, and every day, new enrollments are getting started. Life is very exciting in this office, and they love to share the love with all of you. Have and wonderful August! #TellYourFriends